A day when wars were fought on battle fields, when a truce was called just to buried their fallen.
When people had a common regard for hard work and weren't afraid to get their hands dirty. A time when they traded eggs for a bit of milk and neighbours would come with the true intention to help in times of need, with no other agenda. When the most wonderful memories were of a hard days work and a cool glass of iced tea on the porch after dinner, watching the chickens peck and scurry around the yard and the scent of clean laundry hung out in the breeze.
The food was truly home made and greatly appreciated. Children learnt many different skills, how to build a barn or how to run a household, instead of how to use a cell phone or how to shoot to kill in a video game.
Yes there was downfalls to those times and yes it was hard work. But weren't people happier? None of the hustle and bustle of angry people driving to work, living each day in a job that gives no satisfaction. People these day have become petty and mean, children have become cruel and unforgiving.
Working away from your home and children, missing all the best young days of their lives because you can't afford to not work. Back then your land was truly your land and no one could tell you what you could and couldn't do to it or on it and you took pride in working it, in your animals in your food and raising your children to be proud of who they are. these days by the time you get yourself home after a long day at work, most of us are to tired to deal with families, so we pick up that take out and don't take the time to inquire about every ones day.
Families gathered together more often and appreciated each other, never taking for granted the days they had together or the skills they could teach each other.
People were less rude, less in a hurry, less greedy and definitely less judgemental of each other.
I know technology is a good thing in some ways and I know that if it was taken from us most would be lost. But I truly believe technology has made us lazy. We let TV and video games raise our children.We can't live with out our cell phone or computer. Very few sit as a family and eat a meal and talk about the days events.
And we should! We really should take the time to appreciate each other, to learn about each other, as families.
To learn the pride of a hard job done well. To be able to count on your neighbours for help when you need it. To know that family will always be family no matter what the situation. to be able to take pride in all that you do, be it your family your home, your job your life, and on your last day on this earth to know your can be proud of who you are and who your children will become.
I truly believe we could learn so much from those days long ago.
I really wish we could live that way again.
It may be just a dream of the past but I believe we would all be much happier and healthier and the generations to come would be better off.
Until next time
Happy homesteading!